“What impacted me most was realizing I wasn’t alone. Being in a room with women who truly understood my experience changed everything. This weekend gave me hope for healing again and truly moving forward. I felt empowered to rediscover joy and strength in who I am—not just as a wife, but as a woman with value and worth on my own. It helped me begin to see myself beyond the pain of my marriage and reminded me that my identity is bigger than what I’ve been through.” -Ali
“I read your book, but reading your struggle with forgiveness again today really hit home. I had forgotten that part of the book. I remember telling my wife that forgiveness is easier if you never have to see the other person again. Healing a marriage to a healthy level requires not only forgiveness, but rebuilding of trust, knowing that your partner who has betrayed you has your back. That is a longer process for sure. You point this out in your book and it is so important. I should have re-read your book a few times as I healed, because my emotional state at the first reading, did not allow me to absorb everything. I read everything I could get my hands on at the time, but never thought to re-read any of them ! I think one retains things that one needs at the time one reads your book. In the beginning, I did not retain things that seemed so far away from possibility at the time. When I was just trying to survive day by day, forgiveness was not my priority – maybe not even a realistic concept for me in that moment. You continue to enlighten us every week. Thank you and God Bless!” -Jim
“One of my favorite parts was the sharing on forgiveness – straight from her heart. It really touched me. As Brian said, men pretend to be men of steel, but they’re really very delicate and vulnerable inside. Learning about our respective personality types was a real eye opener for me. I knew we were different, but seeing us plotted on paper just made it so clear to me. One of those “aha!” moments!” – Anna, Abbotsford, BC
“Brian and Anne give ALL of themselves and in exchange they saved our marriage.” – Mary, St. Petersburg, FL
“Wanted to let you know you are a God send!!!!!! I wish I could put into words how grateful we are for you guys, your amazing knowledge, and passion for helping others. I have tried to explain to others the change that occurred within myself while we took the Healing from Affairs program and it leaves me speechless. How do you put it into words? I can live again, I got my life back, my desire to life back…… how fake does that sound- YEP TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE but it’s true it’s true:)” – Amber, Missoula, Montana